- Is an 18, almost 19 year old girl dating a 32 year old man that bad?
- Is a 19 year old with a 29 year old too much of an age difference? - GirlsAskGuys
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If it's not rare then how much does it happen? I don't think it makes him a pedo but I don't think a female at 19 is emotionally mature enough to date a man at No big deal if you were in NYC dating a 19yo model. If you can't deal with it, probably not for you. Kate Upton is like 19 years old. No one would call you creepy if you dated her. It's your life, do what makes you happy. If she's hot then who cares? Technically it doesn't make you a pedophile.
But if you're almost 30, how do you not know that? Do you not know the law?
Is an 18, almost 19 year old girl dating a 32 year old man that bad?
Must I tell you the legal drinking age is 21? Originally Posted by JordanAndrews. Originally Posted by capitol. Personally speaking, I believe age is just a number. I know a couple 26 and 45 and they are pretty happy, also their friends accept it. There have been tougher obstacles in relationships than a 9 year age gap. However, if there are non-negotiables in your life for example, having children , you have to make it clear that you're not compromising and that it's getting done within X amount of time, with or without him. If he's ok with settling down a little younger than the average guy, then more power to you both.
Every so often you will come across a unicorn of a man who is far beyond his age in maturity when he's young and would actually be much happier dating an older and mature woman than a woman his own age. He could be one of those men. The new French president and his wife have a huge age gap between them, check out their story, and she's the one who's much older. You could ask him to go out with you somewhere and get to know him better. I say because you're older, he'd be too shy or less likely to take that first step even if he wanted to because he'd feel you would probably reject him!
Age is never relevant to anything really. Just be happy, and make people happy. Stop yielding to peer pressure.
Who gives a shit. You don't have to decide where the relationship will go before you even try it. Hi, I'm a 20 year old guy, dating a 25 year old it's great I love it and I love her, a lot of people in this thread have said about different stages of life, this is very true but doesn't mean you can't make it work, we have had and still have slips up where I don't know how to do things round the house as I've always loved at my parents where as she's been on her own for years! We both believe this is it! We have had hard times but this is it this is who we will spend the rest of our lives with!
But to get to this we pushed through situations most people would give up on! To do this you have to be very open and very honest with eachother or you will do what we did and annoy eachother! Once you realise that you're in different stages of life and adapt and talk about it, you'll work it out!
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I'm a 29 year old lady with a sort of FWB thing going on now for a year with a 23year old guy. It's been very amusing and I know now that the younger guys are where it's at for me. They bring an energy and overall spunk to the table.
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Don't feel bad at all for the age difference. If there's interest, go with it. It's fun to have conversations about the perspectives of what you grew up with and anything else like that. For a serious relationship? It's almost certainly not going to work if you have any interest in having a family, kids, etc. If the ages were reversed That's just the uncomfortable reality of biology.
But the maturity difference of 20 vs 29 is astronomical regardless. I would not waste the time if you have any interest in a longterm relationship in general. However, there is now an update, and I hope reddit tells you beautiful people that I wrote a comment because I'm curious about your input. I still don't fully understand reddit, but you guys didn't let me down. Thank you for being the real MVPs. Tuesday night I saw him again and I believe he hinted at us hanging out.
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I didn't go because I had no cash and I am also awkward and didn't realize he was hinting until I was driving home and was like "omg I'm an idiot". Fast forward to yesterday back at church, me volunteering for the day with the head of music and technically his boss. He is her asst. So I mention his hint at hanging out to get a read on her reaction and she was not happy. Cool chick, but already settled and married and all of the things I'm definitely not. So she says she thinks he has had a crush on me for a long time, but she "is asking me not to date him". She says she can't deal with it and if he dates me he is fired, so "do what you wanna do but weigh the consequences".
In the moment I talked a lot about knowing it would be a bad decision, and she talked a lot about how I have the chance right now to "make a series of good decisions" Don't get me wrong, I would never jeopardize someone's career like that. I told myself to take him off the table, and I'm trying - but also I'm a little peeved and it sucks a bit.
Especially now knowing that there may have been a chance. I hope this helps! I see what you mean.. I say if there is enough love, it shouldn't matter. But you must know, when there is a large age difference, there could be some difficulties. The younger one person is, the less okay this sort of age difference is. Like someone else said, if it's 29 and 39, that's fine -- both are adults who have had really lived, and can approach one another as equals.
But a year-old is, I'm sorry to say, not that mature despite what the year-old thinks. While it may be unfair, it makes an outsider ask: Why are they going out with a child? Do they have some kind of unhealthy dominance thing going on here? Only then will it be healthy. What if he didn't know she was only 19 and found out after they started liking each other? Girls that are 19 could seem like their 22 or 23 which in my opinion isn't a big gap at all.
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Liking each other is one thing, but making it work is another. Of course there are always exceptions, but I'm just speaking from experience. I've been that yr-old dating a much older man. It's a romantic idea, but the reality isn't always.