He says he loves me but dating someone else

1) Picture the break-up

  1. Being In A Relationship But In Love With Someone Else
  2. Life, Off Script
  3. 2) Work out your feelings
  4. Is it right to date someone new when you're not over your ex?
  5. Being In A Relationship But In Love With Someone Else

Hiding his phone is classic cheating behavior, especially if he was pretty open with it before. When we have a crush on someone, we think about them all the time. Yeah, if your dude is behaving this way about anyone other than you, be worried. Sometimes, when we suspect that our SO has feelings for someone else, we look for clues in the way they talk about them.

One of the best parts of being in a relationship is having someone to confide to.

Being In A Relationship But In Love With Someone Else

Even in the beginning, your interest can move beyond the physical to expressing you interests, hopes, dreams, and fears. You want to hear stories from the other person about their friends and family, and vice-versa. When the conversation dries up and becomes something resembling small talk, with anything deeper reminiscent of pulling teeth, you have cause for concern. A step above simply checking out other women is when he gives another woman lots of attention.

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I basically abandoned myself and my life to serve him. This is something else.

This is about staying with a guy who will not commit, and convincing yourself that somehow you still have this deep, magical relationship. OK, so long story short, our relationship was bad. Then he broke up with me and it was awful and sad. And actually, he told me he loved me for the very first time while we were breaking up. No man had ever said that to me before, but it actually only made the pain worse.

But somehow I did. Somehow I found the strength, and somehow I found someone new. And he was great! We started dating and I was just in awe of the ease it all. But then Eric came back. He called me one night, begging to see me.

My Ex Is With Someone Else But Still Contacts Me

So he came over, I told him I was seeing someone else, and he totally lost it and he needed me back. After a few weeks of deliberating, I made my fateful choice. And he finally gave me the love and commitment I had desperately been seeking! There was better at my fingertips and I let him go! The way he fought to get me back meant something to me.

Then summer came and I went home for a summer internship before starting my senior year of college. And then he cheated on me you can read about it here. But it sure felt like it. Two weeks later, she was his official girlfriend!

Life, Off Script

Not just official, also Facebook official. I felt like I had been sucker punched. This makes no sense. I called him immediately to make some sense out of it and it was like talking to a cold distant stranger. Yes we hangout without ever having sex just strictly kissing.

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And omg the kissing. I remember our first kiss and he does to. And the loook he gives me melts my heartttttttt his eyes alone make me fall deeper and its been that was since He could be lying but he has said hes never done this with anyone else and he doesnt know why me why he cant stop talking to me why he cheats on his gfs for me.. Beautiful well educated perfect family girls.. Please comment idc what the advice says just tell me.

2) Work out your feelings

You may see this post else where because im getting answers from all blogs. This is my current problem. How do I know the border between being in love with someone but caring for another? The only thing i had thought of was to hate my self for my feelings but this article gave me a new look on things. I hope you have a great life. BUT its too late..

After my gf confessed to me we created a relationship and after a couple of days the news spread all around the school. It really confusing falling in love with another guy while in a relationship, am in that situation right now and damn it, am so confused, have been with my guy for 3 years and now am in love with another guy, am at a cross road and it driving me naught.

My BF and the other guy have always both liked me, and I was friends with the other guy first, he eventually started dating a mutual friend, and she broke up with him and he was devastated, I helped console him and we were basically like best friends for months. I try to imagine dating him, but its just so hard to grasp what reality would be like. I jsut want this to go away so I can feel secure with my current boyfriend instead of staying up at night trying to figure out if I actually love this other guy, or if I should have gone out with him instead of my boyfriend.

I just want to stop being so confused. I was searching the web, trying to see if I can come across an article that will help with me being so freaking confused about my situation.

Is it right to date someone new when you're not over your ex?

However he started to behave weirdly and I realised that is because he likes me. I wanted to just treat him as a normal Friend n work colleague but he behaved even more weirdly and make things difficult in work for me. Slowly, I began to crave for him. I was going through a rough but temporarily patch with my bf. Little did I know that was a mistake and I developed real feelings for him.

Every time he made me sad, my heart felt painful and I was drinking away.

Being In A Relationship But In Love With Someone Else

However, this guy is not the most normal and I find myself stuck in this messy situation. I am currently dealing with this. I have been with my current boyfriend for three and a half years. I have known him for 8 years. His cousin was one of my best friends in high school and our families were really close and were always together. My current boyfriend and I first noticed each other on a cruise where both of our families attended and nothing ever came out of it because he was shy and I was in another relationship.

A few months fly by and all in one night, he kissed me, told me he loved me and that he wanted to be with me. I was shook to say the least. I had been single for 9 months before he and I started officially dating. That was my current boyfriend. It happened so naturally and kind of fast. But with the support of our families and all of their excitement, of course I felt that it was perfect and that I was totally ready. We moved in together after 7 months and that is where things really started to get interesting.

After two months of dating, I was still hung up on my ex before my current boyfriend and would secretly meet up with him. My boyfriend is VERY aware of his surroundings so he confronted me and immediately then, he developed trust issues with me. He says he trusts me but his actions speak louder than his words. When I was single, to fill in the gaping hole in my heart from that previous relationship, I would fill it with the love and attention of other men.

I can be completely selfish and have whoever, whenever I want. Time flies and I develop crushes and find myself secretly kissing other guys. I never slept with anyone. Just a lot of kissing while still in my current relationship. Then I met him…. We went to music college together. In my heartache, I had written some music that expressed my vulnerability.

When he heard it for the first time, his reaction gave me chills and we made a connection immediately. In my most sensitive moment, I felt that he was the one person who understood me… even though I barely knew him. We instantly became friends and were inseparable since. I did not have feelings for him like I do now and told him it was nothing, which it was!

I have a very natural vivacious personality that comes across as flirty. My boyfriend always had issues with that but I swear my intentions were good! I am going to just do what I want. It was one of the most intense moments of my life. After that moment, our connection and love for one another grew. I confessed to him yesterday that I had developed very strong feelings for my friend and he was very upset but calm. I have been super stressed, depressed and anxious and needed to get it off my chest. I woke up really depressed and heart broken. I feel weak and it makes me mad.

My fiance and I just moved out to our own place, with his best friend. He is always doing nice things for me.