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Even though he is depressed and I am suffering from anxiety, everything goes away when we skype. For the last week, we have been debating whether or not we should simply just break up — and that maybe it was for the best. This weekend 2 days ago , I decided to forget about everything that was going on and go to my friends birthday party, at a pub. I got drunk for the very first time. When I woke up the next morning I was so nervous to tell my boyfriend.
This is because I promised him that my first time getting drunk would be with him; i would be safe in his arms. And then he hung up. My heart sank to the bottom of the ocean. I expected him to get mad but not this. I did not cheat on him, so I was in complete shock. How could he react this way? He broke a promise, to stay faithful to me, but i still gave him a second chance. He sent me a text right after he hung up, telling me what a terrible person I was, complaining about how he thought I was different and independent, and loyal. This text made me even more confused.
I have not replied or called since. And I think he is expecting me to ask for forgiveness, and he would forgive. Normally this is what would happen in our relationship, since this has happened many times before. But perhaps its best this way. He was my best friend, and I would still want to talk to him everyday.
Maybe he would take me back and things would go back to normal, but than what will happen? Im only 15 and I know I have a whole life ahead of me, and sorry if this sounds totally insane, but I can only imagine my future with him! I am so comfused. I love him and I want to be with him but even IF he did take me back, what will the future hold?
I have read all the other stories, and it really helps to relate with other people. I am in so much pain.. However 32 months later, We finally proved them wrong. Me and my girl friend got back together with more love and passion. It will work if you work it. Ive been down for Zach since we met and he said he feels the same. We tell each other we love each other atleast 20 times in a hour.
We plan on moving in together in the future. And we got together. I knew from the start I loved her, I was just always worried about my personal problems, which made me think will cause me to loose her. And I was trying to get more settled for us. I was a pretty bad fuck up in high school, so I was trying to get done with school, get a job, raise enough money and go see her.
She even agreed to the idea and everything. But one problem was she always thought something was holding me back, but that was just school, money, and me. So finally i graduated high school, as a super senior, but early within the year than actually expected. And now i was trying to get a job, but was having trouble. But we finally had a HUGE talk one night and she told me everything where I was wrong, and put me in my place to say, so then I decided we needed to compromise and so we gave each other many, many promises, and I finally stopped holding back and see each other and gave up my fears of it.
So now it is March, and sadly we got into a little fight which turned into something else. She ended telling me she wants to be with another guy, because he has his own place, job and started school again. Even before she planned on going to school here so we can live and be together but she decided to stay. And at first i was a bit sad she started school, because we planned on. I am super happy to say me and my lovely GF are together now and about to move into an apartment together this summer and our relationship has never been better!
But there has been an overwhelming amount of forgiveness and realism. Despite all the bumps and extreme emotions that come with all of our mistakes, we kept a realistic out look on our relationship. She had to decide if she still loved me after I could make such an extremely dumb decision. And it look about 6 months for her to really start to trust me again. Which is more than understandable if you ask me!
I had to make a similar decision when we wanted to get back together after she left me for another guy. I would say communication is the most important thing in a relationship for many reasons. Every relationship is gonna take its own form of communication. It takes a reprogramming of your brain almost. They never mention the times where it takes his dumb ass 4 years to commit to even see you. IDK I hope somewhere inside this, someone can get a glimpse that every relationship is flawed but it takes the extra care and communication to take any relationship to the marriage phase.
Marriage may seem like this wonderful rainbow that a unicorn farts out for once you become a certain age, but let me tell you as someone fresh out of a LDR and about to be engaged. Its scary as SHIT! I also take payments in food. Tell her you are willing to see her and really DO it. But if she really has moved on, I am so sorry, there is a girl out there close or far who is much worthy of your love and who will love you back as much you love her.
I am in a LDR for 4 yrs now and communication, trust, honesty and constant reminding the other of our love what keeps us both solid and together. There should be reciprocity of love between the two of you or else one will be depleted, with all his or her love spent already. You empty love and get filled with love by the other.
Both should be willing to fight for the other. Go and visit her if you must and talk to her in person or prove to her you meant it…your love for her. I hope this helps…Good luck.. My boyfriend 45 is from Florida. He is a truck driver. We talk quite more than before. He develop feelings for me.
Been cheated and hurt in the past. I will see you soon. I called him asking what for. He wanted to know what happen between us. He was talking to someone else at that point in October. He had feelings for someone else which that was me. It was his idea that I should fly out to Florida to see him to see where it was going to go. I booked my flight for Dec. I was excited and scared meeting him for the first time. He was amazing everything what he said was true.
I fell in love with him. We made it official that we were dating right on his 4th birthday. I was their to celebrate with him on his special day. Hardest part came on Jan 3, was the day I was leaving. We wrote each other a letter on how we felt towards eachother.
As we got to the airline getting my bordering pass saying our goodbye and sweet kisses was the hardest thing. I went my ways to get ready to go home. He called me after I got through security telling me he was trying to hold his tears back walking back to car. That really made me sad. As I was on my way home… it felt different. With up and downs. We always talk,videochat,text just try to make the most of it.
He got me a promise ring the symbol of his love to me that he wants to be with forever. I will be moving to Florida to be with him next yr in March to have our life and future together. We will be getting married and I will grant him a daughter he always wanted so do i.
Just to let everyone know who is in a LDR that it does work. Here is my story…. My boyfriend and I dated all through high school and was even engaged the night of my Senior prom. We had an amazing relationship, but I went off to college and he went into the Marines. Everyone was saying we were too young for it to work, there were people telling him I was cheating on him and vice versa.
None of that was true, but we ended up breaking up and moving on. We both married other people and had we each had three amazing children. After both our marriages failed we ended up finding each other by accident through facebook.
It has been two years since we found each other and we are more in love than we ever have been. The problem is…we live across the country from one another so we only get to see each other maybe once a month, if we are lucky. Our kids are all teenagers and theirs lives and other parents are where they are. We cant figure our how to get together. My divorce decree states that my kids are to stay in this school district and so does his. Our youngest children have five more years of school left. Any advice out there? Well, here I am on my 4th year in college-need one more to graduate- having a LDR with a beautiful inside out French guy that originally started being both in the same place-that is Greece- for the first 2 months.
I cannot say much, apart from the fact that I had plenty experiences and I always felt liberated from attachments. Now in my 23 years and for the first time I truly feel in love and ready to be with that person for long time. And that is why…i feel that this is so unfair.. Well my story starts at the beginning of October One night I was just being cheerful and happy and another member of the group attacked me for it saying how I was a fake,considering he was the one asking me to join.
I was so upset I spend my night crying. But then suddenly I hear my phone,a text,it was A…. He texted to see if I was alright and that he could provide a shoulder for me to cry on. It never crossed my mind that I could fall for him. I mean he lives a continent away,I was 17 he was We would stay up late talking about a future together,a beach house,him,me,our two daughters and a dog. He filled my days with happiness. Months went by we were more in love with each other. Then one night I felt he was pushing me out.
By then I realized hey were dating. I tried my best to keep them together I wanted him happy even tho I was miserable. I hope he do and I got that feeling yes he do love me: I hope we will be together for forever: I was after my boyfriend for two years and decided to stop at the end of We met through our parents and goes to different colleges. Anyways he started to like me right after and after he confessed we started our relationship long distance. I want to give him a hug after a long day at school and want to hold his hand during a chilly morning.
Should I break up with him? Oh and also, my boyfriend lives in the US and I live in Canada. So it all started October when I wrote in a group chat on Facebook about how depressed I was. That guy was the only one that asked me why. So I sent him a private message and we chatted the rest of the evening. Before that, I had seen him once during a skype group video and thought he was cute but I never dared to talk to him.
So that evening, we talked and I even told him the first time I saw him i thought he was cute and everything. Anyways, 2 months passed and feelings started growing and growing. One day, I got a letter from him. I also sent him a letter and that day we both got our letter so we decided to open them at the same time. His was a poem he made. I cried and kept telling him how much I loved him.
So that was the beginning. It was going well until I cheated on him with a guy in the same group chat as before. I felt terrible and one day, when we were both telling the whole story of our life, I included the fact that I cheated on him… he was sad for some days and I was too. I feel so frustrated not to be able to do anything but hope and wait. I am Hiba from Pakistan. I was in a Long distance relationship for 3 and a half years.. I told him I give up on is too.
So we broke up. He told me goodbye I said nothing. Even if he can make it now I will never think about it. He left when I needed him. While I was there for him. Our love was undoubtedly strong and very deep. I still love him I can tell it. I will fall in love with someone new, I know. But I never would want you back. Im from chicago me and my boyfriend have been together 4 years and we have been apart for 10 months.
He used to live here as well but last year he got deported and now cant come back to the U. So i feel like im stuck he cant live here with me and i really dont want to live there with him. I would have no one but him. My whole family and friends are in chicago. And i dont want to leave i was born here i like it here, ive tried staying with him for a month but i cried almost everyday i know nothing or noone but him.
Having no support or just someone to vent sucks, i can tell he feels bad about the situation but were both kind of stuck. I just want to know what to do should i suck it up and go be with him and leave everything..
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The last thing i want is to get cheated on and i honestly think it will happen eventually if we keep going with this long distance relationship. I go through these rough patches when I get stressed out and wish we could be together physically. Ich bin aus Deutschland und er lebt in Indien.
Wir beide haben uns auf Facebook durch ein paar Freunde kennengelernt. Damals ging mein Freund und ich durch eine emotionale Phase, die uns das ein oder andere Mal sowohl zusammen, als auch auseinander gerissen hat. LDR sind nicht einfach. Aber meiner Meinung nach ist keine Beziehung einfach. Wenn du ihn liebst, ist die Antwort jedoch eindeutig. Ja, du bist es wert. Zweifelt nicht an eurem Partner und glaubt fest daran.
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LDR work if both partners love each other: Every time I met her it felt special to me and we two had the best moment together. She plays professional tennis and moves around the word. I constantly think about her and I know she does the same. The distance and knowing that it is the only barrier hurts. I met her 3 years ago in a college, we fall in love with each other, we love deep and we are clear of our love.
We live far away from each other, I already knew that before I decided to take the steps to fall in love with her. I remember the first time we have to separate, it was the semester break. We visited aquarium the day before, it was the moment of our life and we never forget every precious moment during that day. And now, we had to separate for more than 4 months before we can meet each other for 5 days, we work at different country and I knew this day will come and I had a hard time to face the truth, I became depressed and angry and anxious, I dont want to separate for so long, I want to see her, take her to places, hug her, tell her stories, enjoy movies with her, wake up next to her.
I take a deep breathe and dive into the deep, dark, empty cave inside my mind, I wish I never sees her again, because it keep reminds me each time we meet is another goodbye to all of us and I hated it. She had her jobs now, she live comfortably with her family and friends, she is safe I know that, I tell myself to let go, to trust our relationship and let my worries sink into the deep ocean.
I let go, I breathe again, I focus. We have countless arguements, fights, tears but we still stuck with each other. I am very proud of her, her courage to wait for me, her courage to take the leap of faith into our LDR. In the first time ever, I can really told myself: My advice for LDR is: Make sure you really loves each other, and you could take the pain to be separate into different time zone and such. LDR is not pretty but it helps us to keep our promises and every time we meet we had more to share and surprise for each other.
I was 16 years old when I met this guy online. We talk everyday and sometime we get a chance to see each other in cam. However, it is in Florida and I am from Pennsylvania. My boyfriend and I have been together about 2 years now. I hate making this decision because I do not want to leave him and put a strain on my relationship. I do not need a doctorate to practice what I want to practice because you can be certified with a year masters degree. But if I stay in PA, I would be taking a year off to work, take more classes, and reapply to more places next year for masters programs.
While my family and many others are telling me to go to Florida and make the move, my boyfriend is the one person ignoring the topic and telling me that I do not need my doctorate right away which is true because there are 1 year online programs available after a masters … And I do not need to move across the country to become what I want to become, also true. Plane tickets are pretty cheap to fly down to Florida from PA, also. It is so hard to pick up and leave everything you love. I just want my relationship to work and I know it can with a positive attitude and visits about once a month. I just wish my boyfriend could view this opportunity as positive.
He strongly does not want me to leave. Any advise or help on either my decision to move to Florida, what to say to my boyfriend that can make him more positive about this move, and what to do to make sure that it does work?! My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half, long distant that is. We met on a random game one day but became really close friends and then a couple.
I turned 18 back in March and graduated high school in May. However neither of our families have enough money for a plane ticket. However all of them failed; no one called me back for a job, no on requested a commission, my parents would give me SOME money but ask for it back in a few days, and we all know how the lottery goes.
Also, my girlfriend is a bipolar-depressant who had a history of being suicdal. I made a GoFundMe gofundme. I was hoping that someone would be nice enough to donate to help us finally meet each other. Hi, my name is Maria. I met my lovely boyfriend on October I was going to a university in Canada. I met him in a spanish course that he was taking, me on the other hand, I was just there to help the professor.
I am not the kind of girl that will fall in love at first sight, him on the other hand did. So then we started talking and then I fell for him, and so profoundly.
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We started dating on November 20, It was so magical, we used to watch movies on his room, cook and had a lot of fun. And my boyfriend has never liked asian girls, for personal reasons. And that was his third semester there. I swear, all of this made me feel like I was supposed to meet him no matter what, and that we are meant for each other. My fourth semester in the university, I worked hard, I swear I did, but my final exams brought my grades a bit down and my mom is not glad with it. The university here is not really good and very dangerous. I love my honey so much, like crazy, but if i stay then our future will be uncertain.
Can someone please help me? But for now all we have is FaceTime and talking on the phone. I planned after high school to go to a college near her live down there until I finished college then after we both finish college then we will be together. Love has no distance.. This is my story…. Nobody in my family knows about my LDR and the same goes for him except his brother-in-law …. I met him on a PC game on October I was only 12 years old and he was I asked his Skype name and I gave him mine and ever since that day, we kept talking to eachother, every day….
He lives in Detroit and his parents are from Bangladesh. I live in Montreal and my parents are from Central America. The first time we face-camed, the first time we saw eachothers faces… I think you could say that it was magical. So yeah… The more we started to talk, the more we were getting closer. But I was wrong.. I fell in love with him! My boyfriend and I met in 8th grade and as stupid as it sounds we fell in love.
We were together until the next summer when I had to move to another country. We both struggled with our own family problems so our bond was very close and we wanted more than anything to have somewhat of a future together. We decided that if we still had feelings for each other that when I finally moved back home then we would meet up and try it all again.
So we continued to talk everyday for the next 4 years. At one point in those 4 years my boyfriend decided he had found someone he liked enough and that maybe it would make his parents happy and it would make us more happy to have someone nearby that cared about us so for about a year we just talked every once in a while a friends as we saw other people but the other relationships never turned out quite right and we ended up not even trying to date anyone else after that. After 5 years I move back and we met up again.
Hey, I met my heart at age 16 on a vacation to see my family in Dominican Republic. We were young and all thought that it would be a brief part in my life. Boy were they wrong we now have two years. And we are both currently I sometimes wish I would have never went through with it. But in lying when I say it because even with all the tears , the struggles , the depression. The heartbreak … It all makes up when we see each other again.. We are in love and people , family and friends tend to get in the relationship. I know my boyfriend since two years.
He lives 6 hours by train from me. We started to skype again and in July he came to see me in my city. We spent the whole week together, every single moment.. He said he will come to me for my birthday in December, but in December means in 4 months.. How is it better to keep in touch? I was thinking that maybe I could send A the password to this email and have him look through it..? We shared yadda yadda Thank you for such a great day A: What are your thoughts?
For 4 years…or the first chance he can come back for me and start our life together. Unlike most guys, he wants the same exact thing I do: How do I fix this unfixable heart ache? I think the little gestures make a big difference in helping long distance relationships work. When my boyfriend and I are apart, we will use HugBot app to send silly messages to each other. Our relationship has had its ups and downs. We are even making do with a long distance relationship. He moved to NYC a year into our relationship so a year ago now. He is there temporarily for work and will return in a year and a half.
He is super attentive and caring. We FaceTime every week and text each other throughout the day, everyday. Three time zones apart, he texts me when I wake and when he goes to sleep and so much in between. Plus, he visits five times a year for weeks at a time. I can visit sometimes too, but him more since work pays for some of the trips.
He is visiting now and has been here a few days and has a week and a half more to go. He came for my birthday. I got paranoid when he said he was hanging with his buddies one night. No secrets—he told me and let me know, but I guess I drew bad memories from the past along with nagging insecurities about not meeting them.
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I snapped at him. Quite out of the blue, I said I was going to hang out with a dear friend who was visiting. He was surprised at this and a bit hurt. I guess I resent him for not sharing that part of his life with me. I have brought this up before and expressed it would be nice if I met them. It just gets pushed under the rug. Before he could progress with his visit, I let bad memories of our past cut off potentially good memories from happening.
He does make time for me when he visits—we go on dates, we have our time alone. But I am just wondering why I never met his buddies. I know before he moved away, he was hesitant about the distance, but he had proven in words and actions that he wants me. He has even brought up the prospect of me moving with him for the remainder of his assignment.
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The man has had a rough love life, btw, with a two year marriage ending 12 years ago because she cheated and a string of failed relationships thereafter. So, he has his baggage. He is from Denmark and I am from England. It might sound a bit cliche or cringy but when I saw him he gave this smile that lit up my whole world. So after we spoke, we spoke non stop on Skype for a whole week, I felt alive and like I had a purpose. He loved physics and was so passionate about it, his eyes would light up whenever he spoke about it, I wanted to be able to understand him and make him happy but before I felt I ever had the chance to he vanished out of my life without saying a word.
He messaged me for several months and I ignored them all I was so pathetic. I ended up talking to a man much older than I who was the complete opposite of the boy of my dreams, it was the worst thing I ever did. I used that man. He understood and I messaged him as soon as I could, he came back to me. It was like I had no insecurities no nothing , he made me feel beautiful. But after he left he got very very upset and everytime we would Skype daily he would cry just looking at me, I felt so indescribable, all I want is for him to be happy. It took him some time to get over it but it happened faster than I thought it would, fast forward a month to my birthday.
It was the best moment of my life. Seeing his face makes everything better. He however had to leave the day after which made things very sad but I was so happy I am still so happy. So he went back and the same thing as when he first met me happened, I try my best to stay strong for him. Fast forward to April, I finally saved up enough money to buy tickets to visit him in Denmark. I did everything I could for him. Things were going well for us, he was smiling regularly and my life felt perfect in that moment however a month before I was going there we seemed to be arguing more and questioning our relationship.
I love him and I want everything to make this work. Help would be appreciated thank you. Me and him had so much history that it was all just a punch to the face to me. I would post whatever status I wanted to on how I felt, or just post pictures, etc. But his mom declines. June rolls around and by this time I saved up my birthday money and my graduation money, I buy my ticket to go see him through Amtrack and head over there June 12 , I finally meet the love of my life Long Distance Relationship was definitely hard on both of us, me and him would both take Amtrak to see each other every month until October came, we went on a break and he was off to Basic Training for the military, he was gone for 2months!
He came down for Christmas to see me one last time before he goes off to Tech School for another 2 months!! We ended up happily married ,I become Mrs. And we move to Alaska It was and is not an easy going experience but it was by far the best experience, never give up is the key. If you do want more advice just email me vianeykl. Facebook Twitter Tumblr Reddit. View this post on Instagram.
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